Very often when you just can't decide between two or more options, John, it's because the answer that would most give you peace is actually, "None of the above." 

But not always. 

Choose me,
  The Universe
John, this is an 8-part love letter...

Thoughts become things... choose the good ones! ®
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Happily, John, it was really, really easy for me when I chose to be you....