Coming at Conflict with an Open Heart | by Madisyn Taylor Conflict is an unavoidable part of our lives because our beliefs and modes of being often contrast powerfully with those of our loved ones, acquaintances, and associates. Yet for all the grief disagreements can cause, we can learn much from them. The manner in which we handle ourselves when confronted with anger or argument demonstrates our overall level of patience and the quality of our energetic states. To resolve conflict, no matter how exasperating the disagreement at hand, we should approach our adversary with an open heart laden with compassion. Judgments and blame must be cast aside and replaced with mutual respect. Conflict is frequently motivated by unspoken needs that are masked by confrontational attitudes or aggressive behavior. When we come at conflict with love and acceptance in our hearts, we empower ourselves to discover a means to attaining collective resolution. The key to finding the wisdom concealed in conflict is to ask yourself why you clash with a particular person or situation. Your inner self or the universe may be trying to point you to a specific life lesson, so try to keep your ears and eyes open. Once you have explored the internal and external roots of your disagreement, make a conscious effort to release any anger or resentment you feel. As you do so, the energy between you and your adversary with change perceptibly, even if they are still operating from a more limited energy state. Consider that each of you likely has compelling reasons for thinking and feeling as you do, and accept that you have no power to change your adversary's mind. This can help you approach your disagreement rationally, with a steady voice and a willingness to compromise. If you listen thoughtfully and with an empathetic ear during conflict, you can transform clashes into opportunities to compromise. Examine your thoughts and feelings carefully. You may discover stubbornness within yourself that is causing resistance or that you are unwittingly feeding yourself negative messages about your adversary. As your part in disagreements becomes gradually more clear, each new conflict becomes another chance to further hone your empathy, compassion, and tolerance. | DailyOM Course Spotlight by Ellen Whitehurst Make Yourself a Money Magnet is dedicated to bringing both the promise and the presence of real and lasting wealth, prosperity and abundance in your life. In this report, international inspirational expert Ellen Whitehurst transcends and transforms the meaning of wealth, abundance and, yes, true and lasting prosperity, from an idea or an intention into a real experience. She shares with you the ancient secrets and modern shortcuts, the tips and techniques that she has been privileged to have been privy to over the last 25 years, from empowered intuitives representing almost every tradition and culture and every walk of life. Ellen pulls from these time-tested traditions and then takes you by the hand and walks you down the path to your own personal and powerful true and lasting state of prosperity. She shares ways in which you become a magnet and attractor for abundance, money, prosperity and, of course, wealth. This course will help you clear away the stale, the stuck and the stalled energies that are keeping you in a financial 'holding pattern,' and sweep away all the obstacles that are keeping you from attracting the wealth, abundance and prosperity that are your birthright! Top 10 DailyOM Courses 1. 14 Day Spinal Reset 2. Fit and Fierce Over 40 3. Lose Emotional and Physical Weight with Tapping 4. 21 Days to Phenomenal Abdominals 5. 21 Day Booty Core 6. Overcoming Body Shame 7. Overcoming Self-Sabotage 8. Protect Yourself from Control Dramas 9. 21 Day Yoga Shred For Men 10. A Year to Clear What is Holding You Back!
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