He’s so successful. He’s such a strong leader. He presents himself so well. His stuff is so original and popular. He holds a traditional view of gender. He’s so in touch with his pain.
People say about the woman:
She’s an ambitious diva. What a control freak. She’s such a flirt. She’s such a flake. She’s a feminist. She has a victim mentality.
When we hold stereotypes in our mind and people don’t fit them, we react.
The problem is at the root: these stereotypes that we are conditioned to cling to.