Fallout from Church Abuse

Fallout from Church Abuse

A few years ago, I attended an unusual party. There were about 30 people there and they had all been part of cults. They had gathered to celebrate being free. I remember talking to one gentleman in his 60s. He was articulate, thoughtful. I couldn’t help but ask, “How does someone like you get taken in by a cult?” I’ll never forget his reply. “No one thinks they’re in a cult. You just think you’re in a great church that has some problems. And as those problems grow, you justify staying because you hope things will turn around.” Sadly, his decision to stay resulted in brutal abuse, that not only he, but his daughters, endured.

Spiritual authority is a powerful thing. It can be used to nurture people’s souls, leading them closer to Christ. Or it can be wielded destructively and cause irreparable harm.

Moral Failings in the Pulpit Lead to Moral Injury in the Pews details the dramatic impact of spiritual abuse. Comparing it to the military concept of “moral harm,” a term developed by military therapists, the article details how suffering spiritual abuse can result in psychological symptoms resembling PTSD.

And while we’re on the topic of spiritual authority, here’s a resource to help you lead people with wisdom and sensitivity. Spiritual Care is a collection of wisdom from seasoned leaders, including Eugene Peterson, designed to help you lead like a shepherd.