When You Should Let Your Child Fail: The Benefits of Natural Consequences
By James Lehman, MSW
Sometimes you just have to let your child fail. Parents often do their kids a disservice when they protect them from natural consequences by taking over for their kids to ensure that their kids don’t fail. Here's how you can use natural consequences for more effective parenting.
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Defiant Child at Home? James Lehman, MSW was a defiant child too. Let him show you how to turn your kid's attitude around and get back in control of your family. Is your child’s behavior driving you crazy? Are you struggling with a child who’s disrespectful, defiant or obnoxious toward you? Do your kids fight constantly - even to the point of verbal or physical abuse?
You’re not alone. Millions of parents are trying to cope with kids whose behavior is out of control. But you can get your kids to respect you and listen to you again—with The Total Transformation®.
The Instruction Manual for Defiant Kids
The Total Transformation is the instruction manual for dealing with children and teenagers who are mouthy, disrespectful or resistant to authority.
In this step-by-step program, James and Janet Lehman show you how to change your child’s behavior and take back control of your family, with the exact techniques they use to get kids to behave appropriately.
"I know they work because they worked for me. I was a kid with horrible behavior problems. If these techniques can work for me, I believe they can work for anyone."
- James Lehman
The Total Transformation is a straight talk program that shows you exactly what to say and do to set the limits your child needs — with no screaming, arguing or frustration.
You'll learn: How to stop arguments with your kids instantly How to defuse temper tantrums How to get your child to stop making excuses and start taking responsibility ADD, ADHD, ODD, bipolar disorder & more—How to get a child with a diagnosis to behave We’ve seen even the most defiant, obnoxious and verbally abusive kids change, time and time again. To achieve these results, you just need to learn the right tools and process for when abusive and defiant behavior kicks in and takes over.
No Screaming.
No Arguing.
Just Respect.
If you've tried screaming, punishing, pleading and negotiating and your child still walks all over you, let us show you an easier way to get him to behave. We guarantee you’ll enjoy being a parent again.
One low price gets you full online access to ALL of the following programs: The Total Transformation® The Complete Guide to Consequences™ Getting Through to Your Child™ Two Parents, One Plan™ The ODD Lifeline™ Life Over the Influence™ Get your online access today for only $19.99 per month, a fraction of the cost of family counseling.
No minimum commitment—cancel anytime.
Add a free trial of parent coaching at checkout and schedule your first coaching phone call today.
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