I saw this photo project by a woman who took pictures of young adults... I think at her university. They were before and after photos. The before photo was them just posing for a shot. The after photo was taken after the photographer told them they were beautiful. The difference in the photographs is palpable! Isn't it amazing how your whole day can change and your whole demeanor transform after a little bit of love, encouragement, affirmation, acknowledgement, validation, or even just a simple compliment? So... last week... I expressed a little bit of love and support to all the women and girls in the USA... from "the guy living upstairs"... since I'm in Canada. (Did you know that? Many people still express surprise when they learn I'm Canadian.) Even though there were some nasty comments, the comments from women were overwhelmingly grateful they were even being thought of. I have two pieces of advice: 1. Take compliments seriously. 2. Give compliments generously. It really does change the world. |