Dear John, There’s no question that racism continues to be an ugly problem in America. There is also no question that those on the receiving end have been dreadfully harmed in many instances. Racism is a two-way street. There are people from all races who are racist, and in 100% of the cases, it is wrong. What many people do not realize, especially those who are guilty of racism, is the fact that they, too, are suffering in an entirely different way but, nonetheless, suffering because of the racism they practice. I One who perpetrates racism damages himself because he is captive to a destructive character trait. A racist attitude signifies a lack of knowledge and sometimes even hatred. At best, it indicates ignorance and a closed mind, which would mean there is little room for love, compassion and understanding. It's basically true that the person who is ignorant and filled with hatred will find it impossible to carry that burden around and have the freedom to be the best person he or she can be. This racism prevents him from expanding his base of friendship, contacts, and the rich heritage that every culture carries. He misses out on some of the best relationships that are available. Ultimately, it's more than just a cliche that "acid eventually destroys the container which carries it." Prejudice is a heavy burden to carry. When we rid ourselves of that destroyer, it will be much easier to become our best selves. You were Born to Win, so go ahead and Live to Win, Tom Proud son of Zig Ziglar PS - Quote of the Day: “Every choice you make has an end result.” — Zig Ziglar |